How To Feel Confident

Published by Uday pratap Yadaw on

What is confidence?

When asked what prevents aspiring actors and directors from fulfilling their ambition, the famed director Francis Ford Coppola simply replied, “self-confidence”. When people think of confidence, it is seen as an elusive trait that others have but they don’t. They tell themselves that lack of confidence is why they don’t have the job they want, the partner they want, or the skills they need.

The truth is confidence is what appears after you go for what you want; it is the result of stepping into the unknown in spite of feeling nervous or fearful. This can take time, however, and in the meantime, there are certain tricks you can implement that temporarily make you feel confident while you work on confidence being a default habitual state.

How to feel confident

Do something you are good at

Whenever you are doing something new, like speaking in public or learning a new skill, you are putting yourself in a position where you might fail. We, humans, like to protect our egos, so we tend to feel bad when we fail and ultimately wonder if we should quit, but any skill that’s worthwhile will always be preceded by failure as you go through the process of learning.

By combining this process with doing something you are good at, you won’t find yourself in the depths of despair 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. When you do something you are good at, you feel good and your confidence is high. Be aware of your strengths and do them daily

Do one thing that scares you every day.

“If you are insecure, guess what? The rest of the world is too. Do not overestimate the competition and underestimate yourself. You are better than you think.” —T. Harv Eker

The best way to overcome fear is to face it head-on. By doing something that scares you every day and gaining confidence from every experience, you will see your self-confidence soar. So get out of your comfort zone and face your fears!


Repeat a positive affirmation

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Have some words of wisdom handy. 

Keeping a positive affirmation tucked away in your mind is always a good idea — pulling it out when you need it can help you feel good about yourself. Think of something that works for you. You can look for ideas online or just think up something on your own.

The phrase definitely doesn’t need to be complicated or long. Michelle told INSIDER, “When I feel scared, I say, ‘You’ve got this.'”

Simple as that. Repeat it in your head until you actually feel it.

Uday pratap Yadaw

About me I am a professional software developer and founder of Alphafortech. I am a tech enthusiast and love to write about technology. I believe sharing the option to learn and teach


Abhinav sharma · February 29, 2020 at 3:37 pm

Good content, keep it bro..😊😊

    user · February 29, 2020 at 3:39 pm

    thank bro

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